COMING AROUND: PARENTING LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER KIDS
Book ID/图书代码: 02173015B77377
English Summary/英文概要: “I’m gay.” When a child confides these words to a parent, they can totally transform the relationship. Whether that results in a closer bond or a broken one is dependent upon the parent’s ability to accept, nurture and honor the child, whatever his or her sexual orientation.
Coming Around is a resource for understanding and coming to terms with a child’s sexual orientation and maintaining a dialogue between parent and child. With compassion and wisdom, Dohrenwend addresses parents’ fears regarding what to say and what not to say, bigotry and social and religious prejudice, the legal issues facing LGBT individuals and how to understand homophobia.
Most important, she shares how to communicate that, whatever happens with a child’s sexual or gender orientation, parents will never withdraw their love.
Coming out is a vulnerable time. Its announcement requires the re-exploration of a parent’s personal feelings on homosexuality. Respecting your child’s decisions isn’t always easy, particularly if you fear his or her decisions will cost friends, ambitions, acceptance and respect. This is a rich resource, jam-packed with insights, information and practical guidance for parents of gay, bisexual and transgender children, as well as an indispensable reference for therapists, clergy, educators and psychological self-help collections.
Chinese Summary/中文概要: “我是同性恋”。当一个孩子和家长说出这句话,这完全可以改变孩子与家长之间的关系。不管是变得更紧密还是从此决裂这取决于父母接受,培养和尊重孩子的能力,不管他或她的性取向是什么。
《发生》是理解,应对孩子性取向问题和维持父母与孩子之间的对话的资源。多伦翁德用充满同理心和智慧的文字讲了父母的担心,关于什么能说什么不能说,偏见和社会宗教偏见,LGBT人群所面临的法律问题和如何理解同性恋恐惧症。
最重要的是,她分享了如何沟通,无论孩子的性取向发生了什么变化,父母都不能收回对孩子的爱。
出柜是个脆弱的时间点。这个声明需要重新探索家长对同性恋的个人感受。尊重孩子的决定并不总是那么容易,特别是如果你担心他或她的决定会影响到交友,志向,接受和尊重的时候。本书资源丰富、有着大量的见解,内含来自同性恋,双性恋和变性的孩子父母的信息和实践指导,也是治疗师,牧师,教育工作者和心理自助合集不可缺少的参考资料。(YYW)
Awards/获奖情况:入围的2014年美国“亲子家庭”类别Best Book Awards"最佳图书奖
即使在我们这个开明的时代,同性恋、女同性恋、双向、跨性别、或“性别转变”的青少年和年轻人,相比从同龄人那儿获得,这需要来自父母的真心理解、接纳、爱和引导。
这本书是由一个专门帮助异性恋父母和同性恋儿童的女同性恋家庭心理学家撰写的,帮助他们互相理解,解决社会和情感问题,讲了从父母的第一反应开始消除世代和宗教的偏见,通过一步一步的学习曲线,走向一个健康的,积极的,和受到支持的家庭关系。《出版人周刊》
Award-Winning Finalist in the "Parenting & Family" category of the 2014 USA Best Book Awards"
"Even in our enlightened era, adolescents and young adults coming out to parents as gay, lesbian, bi, trans, or "gender fluid" need even more real understanding, acceptance, love, and guidance than their straight peers. This book, written by a lesbian family psychologist who specializes in helping straight parents and gay children understand one another and cope with social and emotional issues, addresses generational and religious biases,from parents’ first reaction, through a step-by step learning curve, on the path toward a healthy, positive, and supportive ongoing family relationship." PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
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