RECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES: REBUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP BY REDISCOVERING THE PARTNER YOU LOVE--WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF (SECOND EDITION)

Book ID/图书代码： 05535015B80114

English Summary/英文概要： Every couple has disagreements, but what happens when recurring conflicts start to pull your relationship apart? Do you lie awake hoping that your spouse will eventually see things your way, or rehashing the evidence that you’re right? Demand some immediate changes--or else? This popular, science-based guide offers powerful solutions for couples frustrated by continual attempts to make each other change. True acceptance may seem difficult to accomplish, but the clear-cut steps and thought-provoking exercises in this book can make it a reality. You’ll learn why you keep having the same fights again and again; how to keep small incompatibilities from causing big problems; what communication strategies really work to resolve conflicts; and how to problem-solve and make positive changes--together. Updated throughout with new research, practical tools, and examples, the second edition features a new chapter on mindfulness.

Mental health professionals: learn about using this self-help guide as an adjunct to therapy at the authors’ website (http://ibct.psych.ucla.edu).

Chinese Summary/中文概要： 每对夫妻都有分歧，但是当经常性冲突开始使你们的关系疏远的时候会发生什么呢？你是否非常希望你的配偶最终能以你的视角看待问题，或者回过头来证明你是对的？你需要一些立即的改变—或者别的？这本流行的，以科学为依据的指南将为那些因为不断试图改变对方而沮丧的夫妻提供强有力的解决方案。真正的接受似乎非常难以实现。但是这本书中明确的步骤和发人深省的练习将让这变成现实。你将会明了为什么你一次次重复着同样的争吵；怎样防止小的不和谐引起大的问题；什么样的沟通方式对解决冲突有效；怎样一起解决问题和做出积极的改变。本书以最新的研究，实用工具以及例证进行更新，第二版的编辑也更加严谨。

心理健康专业指导：在作者的网站学会使用这本自助指南用作辅助治疗。(http://ibct.psych.ucla.edu)(LNL)

Awards/获奖情况：“这本看似简单的书可以改变生活。你和你的伴侣将学会非常多的方式来接受彼此，并且在你们的关系中得到新的层次的幸福和舒适感。这本书的天才之处在于这些技巧并不难，它们可以帮助终结无休止的冲突。”--Pepper Schwartz, PhD, The Normal Bar的合著作者：幸福夫妻的惊人秘诀以及他们所反映的在两性关系中创造的新常态。

"This deceptively simple book can change lives. You and your partner will learn numerous ways to accept each other and achieve a new level of happiness and comfort in your relationship. The genius of the book is that these techniques are not difficult, and they can help put an end to perpetual conflict."--Pepper Schwartz, PhD, coauthor of The Normal Bar: The Surprising Secrets of Happy Couples and What They Reveal about Creating a New Normal in Your Relationship

About the Author/作者介绍： Andrew Christensen, PhD,是洛杉矶的加利佛尼亚大学心理学的教授。Dr. Christensen花费了超过30年的时间研究亲密关系和参与夫妻治疗工作。他对夫妻治疗的影响进行了广泛的研究，包括这本书用到的方法，也是他和已故Neil S. Jacobson, PhD一起发展起来的。Dr. Christensen和他的妻子，现居住于洛杉矶，有两个成年子女。

Brian D. Doss, PhD，是迈阿密大学的心理学副教授。在迈阿密大学，他任教并指导夫妻治疗和恋爱关系的研究。Dr.Doss和他的妻子生活在迈阿密，有两个孩子。

Andrew Christensen, PhD, is Professor of Psychology at the University of California, Los Angeles. Dr. Christensen has spent more than 30 years studying intimate relationships and working with couples in therapy. He has conducted extensive research on the impact of couple therapy, including the approach on which this book is based, which he developed with the late Neil S. Jacobson, PhD. Dr. Christensen and his wife, who live in Los Angeles, have two grown children.

Brian D. Doss, PhD, is Associate Professor of Psychology at the University of Miami, where he teaches and conducts research on couple therapy and romantic relationships. Dr. Doss lives in Miami with his wife and two children.

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