GETTING THROUGH MY PARENTS’ DIVORCE: A WORKBOOK FOR CHILDREN COPING WITH DIVORCE, PARENTAL ALIENATION, AND LOYALTY CONFLICTS

Book ID/图书代码： 09700016B97151

English Summary/英文概要： Divorce is never easy. But for kids who have parents in conflict with one another, or where one parent is so hostile that he or she is actively trying to undermine the kids’ relationship with the other parent, divorce can be unbearable. This workbook is designed especially for kids, and includes helpful tips and exercises to help them deal with the negative impact of custody disputes, understand and identify their feelings, learn to cope with stress and other complex emotions, and feel secure.

Written by two leading experts in child psychology, this easy-to-use workbook includes a number of helpful suggestions to guide children though a number of possible scenarios, such as what to do if one parent says mean and untrue things about the other parent; what to do if a parent asks them to keep secrets from another parent; or what to do if one parent attempts to replace the other parent with a new spouse.

If you have or know a child that is dealing with a difficult divorce, this workbook will give them the tools needed to move past loyalty conflicts and the difficult emotions that can arise when parents don’t get along.

Chinese Summary/中文概要： 离婚从来都不是一件容易的事情。但对于那些父母之间有冲突的孩子，或者父母中的一方充满敌意，主动试图破坏孩子与另一方的关系的孩子来说，离婚可能是无法忍受的。本练习册专为儿童设计，包括有用的提示和练习，帮助他们应对监护纠纷的负面影响，了解和识别他们的感受，学会应对压力和其他复杂情绪，并感到安全。

这本书由两位儿童心理学领域的顶尖专家撰写，内容简单易用，其中包括一些有用的建议，可以指导孩子应对各种可能的情况，例如，如果一位父母对另一位父母说了刻薄和不实的话，那么该怎么办呢？如果父母要求他们对另一位父母保密，又该怎么办呢？或者如果父母一方试图用新配偶替代另一方，该怎么办呢？

如果你有或认识一个正在处理棘手离婚问题的孩子，本手册将为他们提供必要的工具，帮助他们克服忠诚冲突和父母相处不好时可能产生的困难情绪。(ZY)

Awards/获奖情况：“《平稳度过父母的离婚期》写得非常好，条理清晰，非常适合5至12岁、学前班至6年级且父母离异的孩子使用。”——《中西部书评》

“艾米•J•L•贝克和凯瑟琳•C•安德烈写了这本实用且儿童友好的书，以帮助儿童学习应对离婚和其他困难人际关系的韧性。他们从孩子的角度关注离婚的真实经历。通过简短、有条理的书面活动，以及善意和支持的语气，为孩子提供了一个机会，让他们在自我意识和能力的基础上完成自己的经历。”——杰弗里•齐默曼，博士，心理学家，专门从事离婚家庭的工作，调解员与合作离婚专业人士，《共同养育生存指南》和《离婚的成年子女》的合著者

“《平稳度过父母的离婚期》是一本非常重要和及时的书。这本书由该领域的两位专家撰写，为孩子们提供了详细的亲身指导，帮助他们理解离婚可能带来的混乱和压倒性的情绪。我强烈推荐这本书。”——约书亚•科曼，博士，心理学家，《当父母受伤时：当你和你已长大的孩子相处不好时的同情策略》的作者

“Exceptionally well written, organized, and presented, Getting Through My Parents’ Divorce is very highly recommended and ideal for use with children of divorced or divorcing parents who are ages 5 to 12 and in grades K–6.”—Midwest Book Review

"Amy J. L. Baker and Katherine C. Andre have written this practical and child-friendly book to help children learn resilience for coping with divorce and other difficult interpersonal situations. They focus on the real experiences of divorce from the standpoint of the child. Through brief, structured written activities and a tone of kindness and support, they offer your child a chance to work through their experiences with self-awareness and a sense of competence.”—Jeffrey Zimmerman, PhD, ABPP, psychologist who specializes in working with families of divorce, mediator and collaborative divorce professional, and coauthor of The Co-parenting Survival Guide and Adult Children of Divorce

About the Author/作者介绍： 艾米•J•L•贝克博士是一位全国性的父母疏远问题专家，并就这一主题撰写了一本开创性的书：《患有父母疏远综合症的成年儿童》，此书由W•W•诺顿公司出版。除了在全国各地为父母以及法律和心理健康专业人员进行培训外，贝克还撰写了数十篇与父母/儿童关系相关的学术文章，并出现在全国电视台，包括早安美国、美国有线电视新闻网和乔•贝哈秀。《纽约时报》、《美国新闻与世界报道》以及其他印刷媒体都曾引用了她的话。贝克以最优异成绩毕业于巴纳德学院。她拥有哥伦比亚大学教育学院人类发展博士学位。

凯瑟琳•C•安德烈博士是一名执业心理学家，从事临床实践已有20多年。她与家庭进行了广泛的合作，以防止孩子与父母疏远，并加强与父母双方的亲子关系。作为一名法院任命的儿童监护主任和调解员，她监督了其他调解员，并帮助父母制定符合孩子最佳利益的健康育儿计划。她每两个月举办一次关于育儿的课程，向父母传授让孩子远离冲突的重要性。她在《美国心理治疗协会年鉴》和《加州心理学家》上发表了关于父母疏远的文章，并在其他出版物上发表了有关父母疏远的贡献。她毕业于威廉和玛丽学院，并在佐治亚大学获得儿童神经心理学专业博士学位。

Amy J. L. Baker, PhD, is a national expert on parental alienation and has written a seminal book on the topic, Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome, published by W. W. Norton & Company. In addition to conducting trainings around the country for parents as well as legal and mental health professionals, Baker has written dozens of scholarly articles on topics related to parent/child relationships and has appeared on national TV, including Good Morning America, CNN, and The Joy Behar Show. She has been quoted in The New York Times and U.S. News & World Report, among other print media outlets. Baker graduated from Barnard College, summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa. She has a PhD in human development from Teachers College, Columbia University.

Katherine C. Andre, PhD, is a licensed psychologist in clinical practice for over twenty years. She has worked extensively with families to prevent parental alienation before it begins and to strengthen parent/child relationships with both parents. As a court-appointed child custody director and mediator, she has supervised other mediators and helped parents to develop healthy parenting plans in their children’s best interest. She holds a bimonthly class on parenting that teaches parents the importance of keeping their children out of conflict. She has published articles on parental alienation in the Annals of the American Psychotherapy Association and The California Psychologist, and has made contributions on parental alienation to other publications. She graduated from the College of William and Mary, and received her PhD from the University of Georgia with an area of specialization in child neuropsychology.

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