태도에 관하여(ENGLISH TITLE:I AM READY TO EMBRACE THE HURT)
Book ID/图书代码： 05378826C00001
English Summary/英文概要： Everyone needs a cool older sister who isn’t afraid to tell it like it is.
What do you do when there is no perfect answer, no great mentor to follow, and no guarantee that your choices will work out? Kyoungsun Lim has spent more than a decade listening to people worry about exactly these things through her columns, radio shows, talks, and advice sessions. Her answers have made her a trusted “older sister” to countless Korean readers: warm but refreshingly direct, and never afraid to tell you when you might be making life harder than it needs to be.
In this book, Lim boils down what she has learned about living on your own terms into five keywords: Spontaneity, Magnanimity, Honesty, Diligence, and Fairness. Be generous in love, diligent at work, honest in relationships, fair in how you see the world, and above all, make choices because you want them, not because money, convention, or other people tell you to. Drawing on twelve years in the corporate world, and now as a full-time writer, and thousands of conversations about work, love, failure, and relationships, Lim offers practical wisdom grounded firmly in real life.
Her advice is reassuringly unsentimental: there is no perfect choice, no job that is enjoyable all the time, and if you never want to get hurt, you may never begin anything at all. But Lim has no interest in becoming anyone’s guru; she simply tells you how she sees things and leaves you free to agree, disagree, or find your own way. Candid, witty, and companionable, I Am Ready to Embrace the Hurt feels less like being told how to live and more like sitting down for tea with the smart, straight-talking older sister everyone could use once in a while.
Chinese Summary/中文概要： 当没有完美的答案，没有可以效法的良师益友，也无法保证你的选择一定会成功时，你该怎么办？十多年来，林庚旋透过专栏、广播节目、演讲和咨询，倾听人们对这些问题的担忧。她的解答让她成为无数韩国读者信赖的「姊姊」：温暖而直率，从不畏惧指出你可能把生活想得太复杂。
在本书的开头，林庚旋向读者承诺：她不会扭曲现实来提供安慰，不会用感伤淹没读者，不会用「我做到了，你为什么做不到？」来责备他们，也不会把空洞的乐观伪装成希望。相反，她希望帮助读者如实地看待生活，独立思考。人生没有完美的答案，最终，我们必须做出自己的选择，相信自己的选择，付诸行动，并承担选择带来的后果。
这种不带感伤的坦诚贯穿全书。作者将她对如何按照自己的意愿生活以及五种质量——自发性、宽宏大量、诚实、勤奋和公平——的感悟融会贯通。她汲取了十二年的企业经验、全职写作的经历，以及与成千上万人就工作、爱情、失败和人际关系进行的对话，提供了扎根于现实生活的实用智能。世上没有完美的选择，也没有永远令人愉悦的工作，如果你不想受伤，或许根本不要开始。
这本书与其说是在教你如何生活，不如说是和一位聪明、直率的姐姐坐下来喝茶聊天，在你需要的时候可以向她倾诉。
Awards/获奖情况：“This is the book I’ve given as a gift more than any other. If this book were a person, it would be that dependable senior who never gives you empty words.”
— Mieun Lee, online review
“Whenever I find a sentence I want to come back to, I fold down the top corner of the page. Most of the pages in this book have their corners folded.”
— Seulgi Kim, online review
About the Author/作者介绍： Kyoungsun Lim is a Seoul-based novelist and essayist who made her literary debut in 2005 after twelve years in the corporate marketing world. She was born in Seoul and rasied in Japan, the United States, Portugal, and Brazil from the age of five to seventeen, following her diplomat parents.
After leaving her corporate career due to health reasons, she turned to writing, beginning as a newspaper and magazine columnist before expanding into essays and fiction. Over the past 20 years, Lim has published more than 20 books and many of her books have become bestsellers in Korea.
Format:HARDCOVER
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