EMOTIONAL BULLSHIT: THE HIDDEN PLAGUE THAT IS THREATENING TO DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIPS-AND HOW TO STOP IT
Book ID/图书代码： 06000008B26116
English Summary/英文概要： You know what your IQ* is.
You may even know what your EIQ** is.
But do you know what your EBSQ*** is? * INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT
** EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT
*** EMOTIONAL BULLSHIT QUOTIENT
An invisible plague is wreaking havoc on human relationships. What is this destructive force? Emotional Bullshit.
In this groundbreaking book, clinical psychologist Dr. Carl Alasko contends that bullshit is everywhere and it’s getting stronger and more hazardous to our psychological well-being every day. From the highest precincts of commerce and politics to the most average, everyday conversations, we’re all affected by its toxicity. And yet most of us remain largely unaware of its influence. Alasko explains that this is because EBS is inspired by three interlocking dynamics inherent to our psychological structure: denial, delusion, and blame. Referred to by Alasko as the Toxic Trio, they work together in an intricate dance in which first a truth is denied, then delusion creates an alternate truth, and finally blame is shifted to someone else.
Drawing on extensive case studies from his private practice over the past twenty years, Alasko reveals that whether it’s a casual “I forgot,” or a premeditated deception, Emotional Bullshit always erodes trust and drives people apart. Absolutely no one is safe from its ruinous effects. The number-one New York Times–bestselling book On Bullshit familiarized the public with the philosophy of bullshit—and the humor that can surround it. This book tackles something that isn’t really that funny at all: how Emotional Bullshit is destroying people’s relationships and, in turn, their lives. Emotional Bullshit outlines a path for recognizing and breaking free from this most vicious of cycles.
Chinese Summary/中文概要： EMOTIONAL BULLSHIT以及BEYOND BLAME這兩本書都能夠加深讀者對於人際關係的動態理解，並且強調哪種行為或態度能在現實世界的人際關係交往中切實起到作用，而哪些卻沒有實際意義。人際關係交往中最複雜且最需要技能的是與他人面對面交談，這時我們的感覺、想法還有需求都要通過語言來得以傳遞。總之，以有效的方式說正確的話，並結合恰當的身體語言、面部表情和聲調才會令人印象深刻，拉近彼此之間的距離，這與誇大其詞和滔滔不絕相比所帶來的是完全不同的效果。 你應該一定知道你的IQ (Intelligent Quotient)有多高
也應該知道什麼是EQ (Emotional Quotient)
但你一定不知道什麼是EBSQ (Emotional Bullshit Quotient)？
一種無形的情緒使你人際關係不好的原因，到底是什麼因素造成的呢？就是EBSQ(Emotional Bullshit Quotient)。
這是一本關於EBSQ開創性的書，臨床心理治療師Dr. Carl Alasko說明這種災禍無所不在而且它將會日益壯大來威脅我們每日的心情。從商場上、政治上到最平常的日常生活對話，我們都正受它(EBSQ)的荼毒。作者解釋這是因為EBS(Emotional Bullshit)是受到存在我們心理結構中與生俱來的三種連結之激發所引起的：否定，妄想和責難。被Alasko博士指稱為毒害心理的三連結，它們同時運行：首先否認真相，然後產生妄想取代真相，最後轉換成責怪他人。
取自於作者個人超過30年的心理師執業的延伸個案研究，Dr. Carl Alasko透露這種情緒不是偶然發生或預先設想好的。Emotional Bullshit總是毀壞真相並使人們分離。絕對沒有人能完全免於它的不良影響。
本書如同New York Times(紐約時報)暢銷書On Bullshit富有幽默風趣的意味。這本書所談論到的一些事情有時候是真的一點也不能用玩笑心情看待的：Emotional Bullshit是如何摧毀人際關係和人們的生活。此書描述了辨識Emotional Bullshit的途徑以及如何脫離此種惡性循環。(CL&CLAIRE)
Awards/获奖情况：The January 2009 issue of Elle magazine in the latest
Self Help books
2009一月Elle雜誌專題報導好書
你的EBSQ 指數有多高?? Rights sold: German (Patmos)
About the Author/作者介绍： Carl Paul Alasko, Ph.D., has been a practicing psychotherapist for more than twenty years. He is the author of the popular weekly advice column “On Relationships” for The Monterey County Herald.
Carl Paul Alasko博士是個執業超過20年的心理治療師，是美國最受歡迎的The Monterey County Herald週刊專欄“On Relationships”作者。
Format:HARDCOVER
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