WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?: LEARNING TO GET ALONG WITH IN-LAWS
Book ID/图书代码： 06830009B31749
English Summary/英文概要： Breaking new ground in family psychology, an exploration of the intricacy, friction, and love in the bonds between in-laws. When we marry, we believe the bond is between only two individuals. Few of us realize the power that inlaws will exert over our lives. But the in-laws we acquire when we marry affect our quality of life—our marriage, family, personal comfort, and long-term well-being—for better or worse. What Do You Want From Me? takes a fresh look at the age-old problem of managing conflict with in-laws, offering practical help for dealing with problems that are both immediate (“How do I deal with my in-laws now?”) and strategic (“How can I change the nature of my in-laws’ demands?”). Terri Apter, a psychologist whose books on family dynamics have received international acclaim, draws on nearly two decades of psychological research to pinpoint the sources of tension between in-laws and explore the ways in which we can build healthy relationships with the in-laws in our lives.
Chinese Summary/中文概要： 是该打破以往理念，给如何准确把握家族心理注入新思想的时候了！
本书将为您探究与配偶家人相处过程中，产生的种种纷繁复杂的磨合矛盾，以及维系家人关系的情感历程。
我们结婚的时候，往往会天真的以为这只是2个人的事情。然而，对方家人对夫妻生活的影响不容小觑！甚至可以说超过了自身的生活。《what do you want from me？》为读者带来阅读新体验的同时，向我们讲述如何与配偶家人建立起和谐的关系——不得不承认，这一层关系处理的是否好，都会攸关我们的生活品质，换言之，会在一定程度上提升或降低我们的婚姻、家庭、个人舒适度、长久以来的幸福感。
作者Terri Apter是一位在家庭动力研究方面，享有国际声誉的心理学家。他通过自己的亲身经历，和大家分享切实可行的解决之道，从而让我们在面对双方当下面临的问题（比如说：我现在应该怎样处理我和我妻子/丈夫的家人之间的关系呢？）和一些根本问题（例如：我怎样才能改变我和她/他家人固有的需求）时，不至于一筹莫展。Apter无不精准地道明了引起配偶家人关系紧张的起因，同时也探寻出多种方式，专门针对随着家族的不断壮大繁衍，如何营造健康和谐的关系。
通过颇有启发性，又不乏细致入微地评述，向我们娓娓道来这份近乎20年的研究。《what do you want from me？》可以说是一本写给夫妇、父母、孩子的书，它向人们探讨如何巩固发展家人之道，值得大家借鉴。(YJY)
Awards/获奖情况："An insightful and valuable guide to a very vexed area of human interaction."---SALLEY VICKERS, author of The Other Side of You
"What Do You Want from Me? provides a fascinating insight into why relationships with in-laws can be so fraught from the perspective of everyone involved and shows how to make things better. This important and beautifully written book should be read by everyone who has ever had, or ever been, an in-law, and ideally by all men and women who are about to embark on marriage."---SUSAN GOLOMBOK, director of the Centre for Family Research, University of Cambridge
About the Author/作者介绍： 泰瑞·阿普特博士写过《其实你不了解我》。她是剑桥大学乃武汉姆学院的高级导师，她主要调研家庭动态学的课题。
Terri Apter, Ph.D., is the author of You Don’t Really Know Me and senior tutor at Newnham College, University of Cambridge, where she conducts research on family dynamics.
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