本書受過許多人的讚美：比爾摩耶Bill Moyers、新聞評論家柯琪 羅勃茲Cokie Roberts、Dr. Andrew Weil (自癒力--痊癒之鑰在自己之作者)並被雜誌 O, The Oprah Magazine擷取摘要
"Simple and profound reflections on the difficult art of speaking the truth to those we love."---山姆．金恩Sam Keen, author of Fire in the Belly
"Susan Halpern reminds us that the difference between relationships that last and those that don’t is often not love but honesty. Reading Finding the Words is like taking out an insurance policy on the most precious of our relationships. It will carry you through times of crisis and enable you to rebuild the relationships that are the foundation of your life, often making them stronger and better than before."---瑞雀．雷門 Rachel Naomi Remen 醫生、「公益癌症協助計畫」(Commonweal Cancer Help Program)聯合創辦人，《自然心藥》(Kitchen Table Wisdom: Stories That Heal)及 My Grandfather’s Blessings作者
"It is a blessing to have such wise and considerate help for some of the most important conversations of your life."---傑克．康菲爾德--《踏上心靈幽徑－穿越困境的靈性生活指引》
"Finding The Words is a one-of-a-kind treasure. It is a must-read for anyone navigating the often-tricky waters of effective and heartfelt conversations with loved ones. We all owe a debt of gratitude to Susan Halpern for bringing these inspiring stories and inspired principles into our lives. This book will save you countless hours of fear and frustration and maybe even a vital relationship or two."---查爾斯‧加菲爾Charles A. Garfield, PhD, founder of Shanti and clinical professor of psychology, Department of Psychiatry, UCSF
"Challenging interactions and conversations are an inescapable part of life, but Susan Halpern’s words and wisdom help us navigate them."---羅傑．渥許《超越自我之道：超個人心理學的大趨勢》Roger Walsh, MD, PhD, professor of psychiatry, philosophy, and anthropology, University of California at Irvine and author of Essential Spirituality: The Seven Central Practices
"This book is a gift for anyone wanting to heal and deepen relationships at any stage of life. Susan Halpern’s wisdom, experience, and the light of compassion shine through the words that show us how to release old patterns of behavior and open our hearts to more love in our lives."---法蘭西絲. 方恩Frances Vaughn, PhD, psychologist and author of Shadows of the Sacred
"Susan Halpern’s second book turns out to be as valuable as her first, The Etiquette of Illness. I found Finding the Words to be an honest, open, and truthful aid in assisting individuals, families, and community members to find the necessary words to move through difficult life moments. I will keep this book on my desk as a reminder and a guide for those important life conversations with loved ones."---Patricia de Jong, senior minister, First Congregational Church of Berkeley
“[Finding the Words] is so important, and would be a fantastic addition to anyone’s library. The pre-teen, teen, young adult and even Grandma can learn subtle, soothing ways to talk through difficult times…I have learned so many lessons already!”---Prissy Green