HOW NOT TO F*** THEM UP

Book ID/图书代码： 11340010B36842

English Summary/英文概要： Babies have very simple needs, yet parents today are overwhelmed with elaborate advice on how to meet those needs. In How Not to F*** Them Up leading child psychologist Oliver James argues that our under-threes do not need training; it’s getting your head straight as a parent that needs to happen.
Drawing on extensive interviews, James identifies three basic types of mum: the Hugger, the Organiser and the Fleximum. Outlining the benefits and pitfalls of each, How to F***Them Up provides parents with a way to recognize which parenting style suits them best. Offering a treasure trove of practical top tips for meeting the needs of under-threes, and challenging our ingrained and often flawed beliefs, James outlines simple strategies to reconcile parents’ personal ambition and desire for a career with the needs of the family and maintaining a work/life balance.
Meticulously researched, inspiring and yet provocative, How Not to F*** Them Up shows us how our own children experiences can impact on our perception of “the family”, and how ultimately we can provide the happy, and stable, environment that all babies and toddlers need, regardless of our own upbringing.

Chinese Summary/中文概要： ——告訴你三歲以下的嬰童真正需要什麼

你是否正為層出不窮卻又矛盾百出的育兒心經而迷惑？
你是否正在關注身為一個職場母親可能遇到的潛在問題？

資深心理學研究專家、暢銷書（They F*** You Up，Affluenza 和Contented Dementia）作家奧利弗•詹姆斯，通過真實生活的訪問交流和深入研究而作的專業育兒寶典How Not to F*** Them Up，指導你正確認識和對待三歲以下嬰兒的需求，避免陷入盲目借鑒我們自身成長經歷的誤區。

其實嬰兒的需求非常簡單，但當今時代家長被灌輸了不盡其詳的育兒心經。在How Not to F*** Them Up這本書中，資深兒童心理研究專家奧利弗•詹姆斯還指出，三歲以下的兒童根本不需要任何的訓練。

經過大量的訪問談話，詹姆斯歸納出了三種特徵各異的母親：the Hugger, the Organiser and the Fleximum，分別概括出優缺點，並説明分析那種撫養方式最適合自己的個性。提供了重要且實用的建議，向頑固不化的錯誤思想發起挑戰。使得年輕的父母親把自身的和工作中的雄心壯志與家庭需求相結合，達到工作生活的和諧統一。

我們兒時的經歷如何影響著“家庭”的觀念和感知，而最終我們又如何才能徹底拋棄我們成長經歷的影子，為寶貝提供一個幸福安寧的、真正適合他自己成長的舒適環境，在How Not to F*** Them Up中都經過了細緻深入的研究。(Claire)

Awards/获奖情况：Praise for Other Titles by this Author
*They F*** You Up: ’Remarkable’---The Times

*Affluenza: ’...precisely captures the way we are all being emotionally snookered by the demands of 21st-century living’---Jeremy Vine

*Affluenza: ’A wonderfully clear and cogent thesis’---Guardian

*The Selfish Capitalist: ’many of us have a great deal of sympathy with what James is trying to tell us’---Daily Mail

About the Author/作者介绍： Oliver James trained and practised as a child clinical psychologist and, since 1988, has worked as a writer, journalist and television documentary producer and presenter. His books include Juvenile Violence in a Winner-Loser Culture, the bestselling They F*** You Up, Affluenza and Contented Dementia. He is a trustee of two children’s charities: the National Family and Parenting Institute and Homestart. www.oliver-james-books.com.
奧利弗詹姆斯，作為一個嬰童臨床心理學家，1988年改行成為一個作家，之後還做過記者和電視紀錄片製作人兼主持人工作。他的著作包括Juvenile Violence in a Winner-Loser Culture，和暢銷書They F*** You Up，Affluenza 和Contented Dementia。另外他還是兩個兒童慈善機構的受託人。www.oliver-james-books.com

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