TIMIDEZZA (MY SHYNESS, MY SELF: LEARN TO LIVE WITH SHYNESS)
Book ID/图书代码： 12342011B45696
English Summary/英文概要： Shyness is a very human condition, but one that makes most people uncomfortable when they recognize it on others. Their reaction is commonly one of aggression or derision rather than understanding or compassion. When we recognize shyness in ourselves, our response is often one of fear, self-pity, panic and intolerance. Only very rarely do we react with indulgence, and almost never with appreciation.
The author explores how persistent and unsuccessful suppression of shyness can generate significant pathologies, such as social phobia and suggests a new and constructive approach. He argues that returning to, and examining the origins of shyness, can precede a new acceptance of shyness not as a fault, but as an authentic aspect of our development. The conventional deployment of stratagems, to fight, hide or deny shyness amount to an inappropriate and unhelpful denial of the formation of our own personalities. Instead, the exploration and use of creative play with shyness, allows us to inhabit this experience without being frightened of becoming childlike.
The author urges us to abandon the temptation to seek cures for our shyness. Shyness is not something to be eradicated, or excluded. On the contrary, shyness is to be praised, as a part of a determined acceptance of one’s own reality.
Chinese Summary/中文概要： 害羞是人性的條件，但是當意識到它在別人身上時，多數人會感覺不舒服。他們的反應通常之一是感覺受到侵犯或嘲笑，而不是感到理解或同情。當我們認識到自己的羞澀，我們的反應往往是恐懼，自憐，恐慌和偏執。這些人當中只有很少人的反應是放任不管，而且幾乎從來沒有人會贊同這種做法。作者探討了持久性的失敗是如何顯著抑制害羞產生的嚴重病症，如社交恐懼症，並提出了新的建設性方法。作者提出,返回檢查害羞的起源, 可以試著接納新一輪的害羞而不是把它視作自身的一個過錯，而且可以作為我們真實一面的展現。傳統的戰略部署，與之對抗，躲藏或否認羞怯等同於不適當的和無效的否定自己的個性的形成。相反地，探索和創造性的利用害羞的自娛方式，讓我們毫無恐懼的擁有這方面的經驗，變得天真浪漫。
作者呼籲我們放棄尋求治癒羞怯的想法，害羞不應該被根除,或者排除。相反地，羞怯是應該被讚賞的，它可以作為一個真實的自己去確定接受。(sandy)
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About the Author/作者介绍： 福斯托 馬納拉在義大利的佈雷西亞大學教授精神病醫療法。他是義大利社會性科學和飲食失調中心的常任理事。Fausto Manara teaches Psychiatry at the School of Medicine, University of Brescia, Italy. He is Director of the Italian Society of Sexology and the Centre of Eating Disorders.
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