101 RELATIONSHIP MYTHS: HOW TO STOP THEM FROM SABOTAGING YOUR HAPPINESS

Book ID/图书代码： 12787012B52062

English Summary/英文概要： Exploding common myths about love that drive us crazy

In this entertaining and thought-provoking book, Tim presents a revolutionary new way of looking at our relationships and why they can be so problematic — and then he goes on to offer some refreshing, new advice as to what we can do about it.

The book’s basic premise is that most of us believe in a wide range of myths about men and women, love and relationships that we have never questioned. It is our unquestioned belief in these myths that confuses us and makes us unhappy in our relationships. To help readers understand the power of myths in our lives, Tim identifies some of our most common “relationship myths”. And then he shows us how we can free ourselves from them. The result is much greater clarity, joy and love in our relationships.

Some of the myths Tim unveils are:
• A relationship can only work if you compromise
• I need a partner to be happy
• My happiness is dependent on my partner
• If you love me, you’ll do what I want
• I’m more selfish than my partner if I don’t do what my partner wants
• I know what is best for my partner
• It’s better to be in a relationship than to be single
• Strong sexual attraction means we’re a good match
• If I try hard enough, my partner will sooner or later change.

Chinese Summary/中文概要： 跳脫「最愛的人傷我最深」的迷思!

愛之深，心痛也深…
親密關係不該如此折磨！一切只是因為我們被迷思所困！
知名專欄作家Tim Ray於此書分享
如何擺脫社會迷思，創造更美好更自在的兩人世界

覓得另一半，有人能相依偎，應該是過著幸福美滿的日子才對！
但為何我們卻發現親密關係常讓人抓狂？有人在身旁陪伴，卻常常感覺有壓迫感，被束縛？
其實沒有人該被責怪，而是因為我們被迷思所困！
知名專欄作家Tim Ray打破普羅大眾對於親密關係的迷思，幫助讀者重新在關係中尋找自我定位，解放自我，擁有更完美自在的親密關係！

此書將破除以下觀念！：
Ø 有人陪才會快樂
Ø 事事妥協，才能擁有美好的關係
Ø 伴侶應該要知道我在想什麼
Ø 我的喜悲都隨著另一半而起舞
Ø 愛一個人，就要滿足他/她的需求，如果沒做到就是自私自利
Ø 只要我夠努力，我的伴侶遲早會改變他/她自己
Ø 我知道哪些事情對伴侶最好，因此我為伴侶所做的一切絕對最適合他/她
Ø 白頭偕老，牽手一生才是最完美的關係(Eva)

Awards/获奖情况：“When it comes to relationships, there are self-help books all around the world, but I’ve never read anyone who has done so much research into ’what happens to the hero and heroine after they finally get each other’ as Tim Ray”---Jane Aamund, Denmark’s leading woman writer and author of countless bestselling books

“An entertaining and courageous book that shows us how we can experience more happiness in our relationships by questioning the traditional way of doing things. I warmly recommend this book to everyone who’s interested in personal development”---Joan A rting - Denmark’s leading sexologist, couples therapist, TV host, and best-selling author

“I think it’s wonderful that so many people out there are really starting to be interested in relationships, sexuality and love in a completely new way. It is making the world a better place. But often there’s a lot of hype and all the experts end up saying the same things so it can be difficult to find an original voice. But you are one.”---Vigga Wagtberg - Editor of Oestrogen, Denmark’s largest Web site for women

About the Author/作者介绍： Tim Ray是知名專欄作家及部落客，曾擔任電視節目嘉賓、家庭諮商學院的客座講師以及私人諮商師。Tim幫助許多人度過生命中的難關，他形容自己的工作是「讓人們尋回真實的自己」，幫助人們自我探索、跳脫思考迴圈、看清自己的心理運作模式，以及尋找導致自己悲傷的因素。
Tim Ray is a popular relationship columnist and blogger, and has appeared in relationship programs on TV, been a guest lecturer at couples’ therapy school, and has a private counselling practice. He calls his work “Getting Real” and by this he means how to live a happy life by waking up to the nature of reality and the way the mind works. "Mythbusting" is an important part of this process in which Tim helps people identify and investigate the thoughts and beliefs that make them unhappy.

Format:电子手稿

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