THE ASPIE GIRL’S GUIDE TO BEING SAFE WITH MEN: THE UNWRITTEN SAFETY RULES NO-ONE IS TELLING YOU
Book ID/图书代码： 06930013B59791
English Summary/英文概要： Aspie girls and women are incredibly vulnerable to having bad sexual experiences with men, whether or not they are interested in pursuing dating and sexual relationships. This may be partly because, as teenagers, Aspie girls are often not part of the social groups where their non-spectrum peers learn the ’rules’ that are vital to their physical and emotional safety in society. Debi Brown has written this important book to fill the resulting knowledge gap - how to interact safely with men - to help other Aspie girls and women avoid common pitfalls and potentially dangerous situations.
This is essential reading for every girl and woman on the autism spectrum, from age 13 upwards. Appreciating that Aspies need explanations to be explicit and comprehensive, Debi Brown provides sound, practical strategies for staying safe in many different situations, sensitively yet honestly explaining what the Aspie’s rights and choices are, and how to act on her choices to stay safe. Clear, unambiguous advice is given on abstract issues, including the importance of boundaries and how to recognise and report inappropriate or abusive behaviour. Strategies for improving self-esteem and for overcoming and healing from negative experiences are also included.
This must-read guide for the first time spells out the unwritten safety rules around dating, relationships and sex, and will inform and empower Aspie girls and women to live full and independent lives while staying safe. It will also be a source of valuable insights and advice for the parents, professionals and anyone else involved in loving and supporting these girls and women.
Chinese Summary/中文概要： 患有阿斯伯症的女童和妇女是令人难以置信的容易被有不良性经验的男人伤害，无论他们对追求约会和性关系是否有兴趣。这可能部分是因为，作为青少年，阿斯伯症患者女孩往往不是社会团体的一部分。他们的非自闭同龄人学习了对他们身心安全非常重要的“规则”。 Debi Brown写了这本重要的书来填补由此造成的知识鸿沟 - 如何安全地与男性交往- 以此帮助其他阿斯伯症女童和妇女避免常见的陷阱和潜在的危险情况。
这是13岁以上的每一个自闭症女孩和妇女必不可少的读物。意识到阿斯伯症患者需要清楚全面的解释，Debi Brown提供了在许多不同的情况下保持安全的可靠实用的策略，敏感又诚恳地解释阿斯伯症患者的权利和选择是什么，以及如何根据她的选择采取措施以保持安全。对抽象的问题给予清晰，明确的意见包括界限的重要性以及如何识别和报告不当或虐待行为，还包括为提高自尊和克服和治疗负面经历的策略。
本必读指南首次阐述了在约会，性关系的不成文安全规则，并告知和允许阿斯伯症女童和妇女在保持安全的同时能完整和独立的生活。这也将是家长，专业人士和参与到爱和支持这些女孩和妇女的人们提供了宝贵的见解和建议来源。(LNL)
Awards/获奖情况：“自己也是一个阿斯伯症患者，Debi Brown亲切的，非常公证的从学科角度来书写...她已经明白一个确保女孩的安全的基本真理，这是至关重要的，教育她......就读者而言， Debi不使用任何的含沙射影或假定知识...她让这赤裸裸的呈现出来，当这一切变得太困难了（一些主题事件是极具有挑战性的） ，她裹住你的热忱用安慰和宽容的话。你会觉得你正坐着和你最好的朋友谈心聊天。这本出色的书应该是所有的年轻女性必读书籍，而不仅仅是阿斯伯症患者“–摘自Sarah Attwood作的序，《理解性：青春期豪爽指南》，《阿斯伯格综合症患者的性关系》”许多女性阿斯伯格综合症患者会认同不确定性和周围性生活和性关系的脆弱性，Debi Brown则表达得比较敏感和诚恳。
就像一位可靠的朋友，她引导读者通过一个精心设计的一系列关于社会支持，亲密关系和安全的“规则” 。伴着极大的热情书写，本书为女性阿斯伯格综合症患者以及和我一样的启蒙父母提供了不可缺少的建议。我特别喜欢Debi分享的个人经验和见解。 “ – 顾问，自闭症之母《党对儿童和青少年自闭症的规划》、《性和严重的自闭症》（即将出版）的作者，Kate E Reynolds
About the Author/作者介绍： Debi Brown是一名34岁的老阿斯伯格综合症患者。她在苏格兰斯特拉斯克莱德大学有一个自闭症研究生证书，她是一个自闭症作家，演讲家和教育家。她住在苏格兰的格拉斯哥。
Sarah Attwood在澳大利亚作为一个性方面的研究者工作了十五年，在那里她设计了一个广泛的性健康教育方案。她特别擅长的领域包括家长的教育和年龄在9岁至17岁的学校儿童。和她从小一起长大的具有阿斯伯格综合症的妹妹给她灵感。
Debi Brown is a 34 year old Aspie. She has a post-graduate certificate in Autism from the University of Strathclyde, Scotland, and is an autism author, speaker and educator. She lives in Glasgow, Scotland.
Sarah Attwoodworked for fifteen years as a sexuality educator in Australia, where she designed a wide range of sexual health programmes. Her particular areas of expertise include the education of parents and of school children aged 9 to 17 years. She grew up with a sister who has Asperger’s syndrome and who has been an inspiration to her.
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