BEFRIENDING YOUR EX AFTER DIVORCE: MAKING LIFE BETTER FOR YOU, YOUR KIDS, AND, YES, YOUR EX
Book ID/图书代码： 09700013B60386
English Summary/英文概要： If you are divorced, or are contemplating divorce, you’ve probably heard the diatribe: Divorce is messy. Divorce is a tragedy. Divorce will scar your children for life.
Befriending Your Ex challenges many of these destructive myths about divorce, and sets out to change the way we think about the process of divorce and its ultimate outcome. While divorce certainly can have negative effects upon children, when they occur, these effects are likely to result from a hostile and combative relationship between ex-spouses. This uplifting book reminds the reader that all divorces need not follow this unhappy script, and that ex-spouses can collaboratively co-parent and be a source of support, not only to their children, but to one another as well.
Author Judy Rabinor’s ability to write as both a divorcee and a psychologist gives her a unique perspective on the subject, and in the book she artfully and thoughtfully combines research, clinical practice, and the everyday reality faced by a divorced parent. As a guide for parents, this book is filled with practical exercises, suggestions and strategies for coping with anger, grief, and loss, as well as the myriad of day to day issues involved in co-parenting after divorce.
Story after story—including Judy’s own story—reminds the reader that once the emotional tsunami of divorce settles back down, exes can be connected and supportive to one another as they share a major joy: loving and raising children and grandchildren, enjoying the family they have created, and creating a new family unit to evolve in the wake of divorce.
Chinese Summary/中文概要： 如果你离婚了,或者正在考虑离婚,也许你已经听到了恶骂:离婚是混乱的。离婚是一个悲剧。离婚会给你孩子的生活留下疤痕。
《与你的前任友好相处》颠覆了许多关于离婚的破坏性的留言,并着手改变我们的思考离婚过程的方式和它的最终结果。虽然离婚必然会对孩子产生负面影响在,当他们发生时,这些影响可能来自于敌意的好斗的前配偶之间的关系。这个令人振奋的书提醒读者,所有离婚不需要遵循这个不幸的脚本,前任可以共同附有抚养责任，,不仅对他们的孩子有利,对彼此也有利。
作者朱迪Rabinor作为一名离过婚的人和一位心理学家的写作能力使他在这一主题上给出了她独特的见解，在书中她审慎巧妙地将调查，临床实践,和作为一个离异父母日常生活中所面对的现实结合起来。对于父母来说作为一个指南,这本书充满了应对离婚父母处理愤怒、悲伤、迷茫以及日常生活中的一系列问题给出建议和策略。
一个个故事当然也包括朱迪自己的故事，这些故事提醒读者,一旦离婚情感海啸落定下来,费用可以连接和支持彼此分享喜悦:爱孩子，抚养孩子及其孙辈,享受他们已经创建的家庭,并创建一个离婚后的新的家庭。(LNL)
Awards/获奖情况：“不管你对于离婚是生气还是难过《与你的前任友好相处》将向你展示如何管理你的情感,找到与你的前任交流的健康的新方法。每个离婚的人都应当看的一个有价值的实用指南!“康斯坦斯•r•丝•阿荣斯博士，《离婚了,我们还是家人》的作者
《与你的前任友好相处》是一个明智的,实用的和赋予同情心的指南,它将帮助你更容易,更快乐的过渡，并最终通往新生。这是一个通往宽容的途径，是一切持久变化的关键。这是每个离婚后有孩子的人必读的书籍。“芭芭拉Biziou，《仪式的欢乐和家庭仪式的快乐》的作者
“这是一本鼓舞人心的书,是每一个离异父母的床头柜上应有的书籍,并且每个与离婚家庭工作相关的治疗师应该在他们的办公室放置的书籍。朱迪思Ruskay Rabinor既提供了一个有关共同监护的专业的独创的模式,培育和自己的情感联系,以及与你前任的情感交流。她的工作是基于一个保持持续的健康关系的重要性的深入研究，同样为了两个孩子和家长的利益。戴安娜Fosha博士，AEDP研究所的创始人和主管
“我强烈推荐这本书给那些真正想与他们的前任相处的人，以及那些没有兴趣成为朋友的人。每一页都充满的研究信息, 甚至在某种程度上可以帮助被抛弃的配偶与自己的前任联系,把孩子的最大利益作为首要任务,并促进每个人心灵上的痊愈。对于任何婚姻破裂的人都应该被强制阅读。“苏珊豌豆,LCSW Gadoua《关注日益增长的离婚》的作者
“Whether you’re angry or sad about the breakup, Befriending Your Ex after Divorce shows you how to manage your feelings and find healthy new ways to relate to your ex. A valuable guidebook that should be read by everyone who has an ex!”—Constance R. Ahrons, PhD, author of The Good Divorce and We’re Still Family
“Befriending Your Ex after Divorce is a wise, practical, and compassionate guide that will help make your transition easier, happier, and ultimately a pathway to renewal. It is a gateway into forgiveness—which is the key to all lasting change. This is a must-read for anyone going through a divorce with children.”—Barbara Biziou, author of The Joy of Ritual and The Joy of Family Rituals
“This is an inspiring book that every divorced parent should have on their night table, and every therapist who works with divorcing families should have it in their office. Judith Ruskay Rabinor offers both a professional and personal model of co-parenting that nurtures emotional connection with oneself, as well as emotional communication with one’s ex. Her work is based on a deep understanding of the importance of maintaining healthy attachment bonds, for the sake of both children and parents, alike.—Diana Fosha, PhD, founder and director of the AEDP Institute
“I highly recommend this book to anyone who truly wants to get along with their ex—as well as to those who have no interest in being friends. Every page is full of well-researched information that can help even the most jilted of spouses relate to their ex in a way that holds the best interest of the children as a top priority and promotes healing for everyone involved. It should be mandatory reading for anyone whose marriage is ending."—Susan Pease Gadoua, LCSW, author of Contemplating Divorce and Stronger Day by Day
About the Author/作者介绍： Judith Ruskay Rabinor博士是一位临床心理学家、作家、演说家和顾问，他在在纽约和长岛丽都海滩有自己的工作室。她已经有三十多年从事与个人、夫妻、团体、家庭和心理咨询师培训相关的工作经验。经过多年的专业饮食和身体形象问题的研究,她已经变成了她自己的职业生涯。协作共同监护离婚运动的先驱者,她写了一本新书发布于2013年1月,《离婚后与你的前任友好相处:让你和你的孩子以及你的前任的生活更美好》(先驱出版物)。这本书已被描述为“勇敢、美丽”,和“一本离婚,分居必读书籍。Judith Ruskay Rabinor, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker and consultant with offices in New York City and Lido Beach, Long Island She has more than three decades of experience working with individuals, couples, groups, families and training psychotherapists. After years of specializing in eating and body image problems, she has turned to her own journey. A pioneer in the collaborative joint-custody divorce movement, she has written a new book to be released in January 2013 : Befriending Your Ex After Divorce: Making Life Better for You, Your Kids and Yes, Your Ex, (New Harbinger Publications). The book has been described as "brave, beautiful," and "a must read for divorced, separated and divorcing parents.".
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