THE TWO TRUTHS ABOUT LOVE: THE ART AND WISDOM OF EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIPS
Book ID/图书代码： 09700013B60387
English Summary/英文概要： Some relationships last, others fall apart, and still others seem to thrive and grow as the years go on. The Two Truths About Love is a guide to creating this third type of relationship—an extraordinary partnership wherein each partner feels fully accepted and loved as they are. Designed over the course of thousands of hours conducting face-to-face counseling sessions with clients, psychotherapist and former Buddhist monk Jason B. Fischer’s unique approach has already improved the lives of countless individuals and couples.
The two secrets to creating extraordinary relationships are simple: partners must
1. Give permission for the other person to be who they truly are while also
2. Taking responsibility for their own reactions, behaviors, assumptions, and expectations of their partner and the relationship.
This book gives readers the tools to start giving permission and taking responsibility in their own relationships and offers strategies for letting go of dissatisfaction and habitual conflicts. In short, accessible chapters, readers learn how to put these seemingly simple rules into practice to regain balance and peace in their partnerships.
Chinese Summary/中文概要： 一些关系在持续，一些却分崩离析了，还有一些随着时间增长变得越来越紧密。《关于爱的两个真理》这本书指导我们如何去创造第三种关系：在这种非凡的关系中的两个人会觉得彼此完全被对方接受与爱。心理治疗师和曾是和尚的杰森．费希尔(Jason B. Fischer)设计了几千小时的与客户进行面对面的咨询的会议，其独特方法已经改善了无数个人和夫妻的生活。
创造这种非凡关系的秘密其实很简单：伴侣必须
1.让对方真正的做自己
2.为自己对于伴侣相处之间的反应、行为、臆测及期望而付责任。
这本书教会读者如何去包容和在爱情中有担当，以及如何避免一些不满及常见冲突的发生。简而言之，在开始章节，读者会学习到如何将这些看似简单的道理付诸实践以恢复平衡和稳定两人之间的关系。(LNL & CK)
Awards/获奖情况：“杰森．菲舍尔非同一般的理论：要想拥有非凡的关系你就要懂得和会用关于爱情的两个真理，学会“包容”和“承担”。这是非常实用且简单的，从我的认知和经验判断，这是真的。我竭力向每一个人推荐，《关于爱的两个真理》这本书，尤其是治疗师和夫妇。”－哈维尔．亨德里克斯博士，是《得到你想要的爱》的作者
“简单但又不简陋，这本书在叫我们如何建立亲密关系上是充满道理和富有价值的。”－塔拉．布莱克，博士，《完全接受并且真诚庇护》的作者
“让东西变得复杂化很容易，但是使复杂简单化确很难。要讲清楚如何建立非凡的关系更是有讲究的。这是杰森．费舍尔和塞布丽娜．欣德尔已经发现的关于爱的两个真理。用简单的通俗易懂的语言，从夫妻实际生活中的努力，和多年的经验，包括来自咨询室和在简单易懂的语言，来自生活的夫妻、和支持苦苦挣扎多年的工作经验，无论是在咨询室里还是垫子上的冥想，从当代心理治疗角度，他们终于认真提出了佛陀智慧的核心编织紧密地结合在一起的见解。这个事实可能看起来简单，但他们明确指出我们的关系的实质，事实上，深刻和持久的精神所在。”—弗林特．斯帕克斯，哲学博士，心理学家和神甫，在Appamada居住的老师，在奥斯汀，德克萨斯州中心的禅宗
“Jason Fischer has an extra-ordinary thesis that to have an extra-ordinary relationship you have to know and apply the two truths about love, which are ‘give permission’ and ‘take responsibility.’ This is elegant and simple, and from my perspective and experience, true. I highly recommend The Two Truths About Love to everyone, therapists and couples.” —Harville Hendrix, PhD, author of Getting the Love You Want
“Simple yet not simplistic, the teachings in this book are wise and trustworthy riverbanks for the flow of intimate relationships.” —Tara Brach, PhD, author of Radical Acceptance and True Refuge
“To make something complicated is easy. To make it simple is much harder. And to be truly clear about what makes relationships extraordinary is elegant. This is what Jason Fischer and Sabrina Kindell have done in unfolding the two truths about relationships. In simple and accessible language, drawn from the lives of struggling couples, and supported by years of experience, both in the consulting room and on the meditation cushion, they have carefully offered the heart of the Buddha’s wisdom woven intimately with insights from contemporary psychotherapy. The truths may look simple, but they clearly point to the fact that our relationships are, in fact, profound and enduring spiritual practices.” —Flint Sparks, PhD, psychologist and Zen priest, and resident teacher at Appamada, a center for Zen Practice and inquiry in Austin, TX
About the Author/作者介绍： 杰森．费希尔(Jason B. Fischer)，文学硕士，LPC，是住在奥斯汀，德克萨斯州有执照的着丰富咨询实践的心理治疗师。他是临床主任并且为那些渴望得到帮助的人提供高质量的、价格实惠的咨询而创办的Plumeria咨询中心。在重返传统社会“走中间道路”之前，他另花时间作为一个完全任命的小乘派之佛教徒和尚。他一生的愿望就是帮助促进全球社区从痛苦和人际关系不和谐中解脱出来。
塞布丽娜．欣德尔(Sabrina Kindell)，文学硕士，PLC，家庭治疗师，婚姻和家庭治疗师和专业咨询主管。她专门从事家庭动态、育儿、和合作学。她以一种非凡关系和她丈夫在一起超过25年，有两个成年子女。
JASON B. FISCHER, MA, LPC, is a licensed psychotherapist who has a thriving counseling practice in Austin, TX. He is the clinical director and owner of Plumeria Counseling Center, which he founded with the underlying mission of providing quality, affordable counseling to all those who desire it. He additionally spent time as a fully ordained Theravadin Buddhist monk, before reentering conventional society to “walk the middle path.” His lifelong ambition is to help foster a global community free from suffering and interpersonal disharmony.
SABRINA KINDELL, MA, LPC, LMFT, is a dual-licensed marriage and family therapist and professional counseling supervisor. She specializes in family dynamics, parenting, and partnering. She has been in an extraordinary relationship with her husband for over twenty-five years and has two grown children.
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