THE NEW MONOGAMY: REDEFINING YOUR RELATIONSHIP AFTER INFIDELITY

Book ID/图书代码： 09700013B60390

English Summary/英文概要： Everyone has their own concept of what “monogamy” means—and most people assume their partners and spouses are on the same page. Couples may assume that they are monogamous, but never discuss exactly what the monogamy agreement means to them. What happens when this implicit agreement is broken? After infidelity, relationships can become strained as both partners lose trust and faith in each other. The New Monogamy offers a way out of these difficulties for couples struggling to stay together after infidelity. Couples make these implicit assumptions and agreements explicit so that each partner knows exactly what is expected of them in the future and what they can expect from their partner.

Author Tammy Nelson helps couples regain trust, romance, and intimacy after infidelity by redefining the monogamy contract. The new monogamy contract is an explicit relationship agreement created after the affair that allows each partner to openly, honestly, and safely share their desires, expectations, and limitations. This agreement does not create an open marriage, but rather, an open conversation wherein each partner can have a say in setting the ground rules for their relationship. The book first helps couples rebuild trust after the affair, then engages in a series of Imago dialogues based on questions about what each partner really wants in the relationship, not what you think you should want or what a partner wants you to want. The New Monogamy includes questionnaires, checklists, and candid questions for partners to ask that help welcome complete honesty and trust back into the relationship. Then, the book helps couples make an erotic recovery from infidelity by addressing erotic problems that may surface and offers advice for helping couples return to desiring and trusting one another. After an affair, it’s impossible to go back to the way the relationship was before, but this book offers the chance for a new beginning. Author Tammy Nelson helps couples regain trust, romance, and intimacy after infidelity by redefining the monogamy contract. The new monogamy contract is an explicit relationship agreement created after the affair that allows each partner to openly, honestly, and safely share their desires, expectations, and limitations. This agreement does not create an open marriage, but rather, an open conversation wherein each partner can have a say in setting the ground rules for their relationship. The book first helps couples rebuild trust after the affair, then engages in a series of Imago dialogues based on questions about what each partner really wants in the relationship, not what you think you should want or what a partner wants you to want. The New Monogamy includes questionnaires, checklists, and candid questions for partners to ask that help welcome complete honesty and trust back into the relationship. Then, the book helps couples make an erotic recovery from infidelity by addressing erotic problems that may surface and offers advice for helping couples return to desiring and trusting one another. After an affair, it’s impossible to go back to the way the relationship was before, but this book offers the chance for a new beginning.

Chinese Summary/中文概要： 每个人对于“一夫一妻制”都有自己的概念，大多数人认为他们的伴侣和配偶都同一个。夫妇可能认为他们是一夫一妻制,但从不讨论一夫一妻制的协议对他们意味着什么。这种隐含的协议被打破时会发生什么?出轨后,关系变得紧张，双方失去对彼此的信任。《新一夫一妻制》提供了一种新的方法使夫妻在不忠后能够摆脱这个难题并尽力在一起。夫妻做出这些隐式的假设和明确的夫妻协议,以便每个伙伴明确地知道未来他们能期望什么,他们可以期望他们的伴侣什么。

作者Tammy纳尔逊通过重新定义了一夫一妻制合同帮助夫妇在出轨后重新恢复信任,浪漫,和亲密。新合同是一种在外遇后建立的一个明确的关系协议，新一夫一妻制协议能让每个人公开,诚实和安全地分享他们的欲望,期望和底线。本《协议》不创建一个开放的婚姻,而是一个开放的社交,在其中,每个人在制定他们之间关系的基本规则上都有发言权。这本书首先帮助夫妇在事件发生后重建信任,然后参与到一系列基于真正需要什么的问题的无意识的意象对话中,而不是讨论你认为你应该想要什么或者你的伴侣想要你想要什么的问题。《新一夫一妻制》包括问卷调查、检查清单和一些供伴侣来回答的坦率问题,希望伴侣能完全诚实并恢复彼此的信任。然后,这本书通过设置性爱方面的问题使夫妻恢复，并提供建议帮助夫妇恢复互相的信任。外遇后,不可能回到以前的关系是以前的观点,但这本书提供了一个机会，使其能够有一个新的开始。

Awards/获奖情况：“不忠不见得是婚姻的尽头,即使大家常常这样认为。夫妻经常发现他们自己的方法来达到更深层、更亲密的关系,我不能想到比Tammy纳尔逊更好的方法来引导这段旅程。“伊恩•科纳博士,性治疗师，纽约时报畅销书《她第一个来》作者

“《新的一夫一妻制》诚实的看待了不忠这个问题和阐释了一个清晰的路径来治疗外遇的伤痕。”-约翰格雷博士，《男人来自火星,女人来自金星》的作者

“《新的一夫一妻制》使Tammy纳尔逊背离许多其他治疗师。她不相信外遇仅仅包括一个可怜的受害者和一个傲慢的犯罪者这样简单，这就是她可以帮助夫妻战胜这个艰难的挑战的原因。“marty Klein博士, 《性的情报》的作家 “刺激和生动，意义,深远和聪明。”贾尼斯•Abrahms春天,《外遇后,我怎么能原谅你?》的作者

About the Author/作者介绍： 塔米•纳尔逊博士,是人际关系领域的世界知名专家, 私人诊所的心理治疗师,同时是一位在性和人际关系和全球关系变化方面受世界各地欢迎的讲师。她是一个?现さ男匝Ъ?,一位性治疗师,aasect注册许可的专业顾问,和一个认证的无意识意象关系治疗师。她居住在纽约地区,在那里她的工作在她的私人诊所，为那些希望恢复他们关系的夫妇做治疗,并创建了《新一夫一妻制》,一次一个协议。

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