CO-PARENTING WITH A TOXIC EX: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR EX-SPOUSE TRIES TO TURN THE KIDS AGAINST YOU

Book ID/图书代码： 09700013B65649

English Summary/英文概要： There’s no question about it: your children are the most important thing in your life. But if you have gone through a messy divorce, your relationship with your children may become strained if you have to deal with a toxic ex. Your ex may bad-mouth you in front of the kids, accuse you of being a bad parent, and even attempt to replace you in the children’s lives with a new partner. As a result, your children may become confused, conflicted, angry, anxious, or depressed—and you may feel powerless.

In Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex, a nationally recognized parenting expert offers you a positive parenting approach to dealing with a hostile ex-spouse. You’ll learn to avoid the most common mistakes of coparenting, how to avoid “parental alienation syndrome,” and effective techniques for talking to your children in a way that fosters open and honest response. In addition, you’ll learn how to protect your children from painful loyalty conflicts between you and your ex-spouse.

Divorce is often painful, especially if your ex habitually tries to undermine your relationship with your children. But with the right tools you can protect your kids and make your relationship with them stronger than ever. This book can show you how.

You can find out more about this book and about author Amy J.L. Baker at www.amyjlbaker.com.

Chinese Summary/中文概要： 孩子毫无疑问是父母生活的重心。但如果你刚结束一段不堪回首的婚姻，而你的前任一直试图挑拨你和孩子的关系，那你和孩子的关系可能会愈来愈紧张。前任会一直对孩子说你的坏话，把你形容成不称职的家长，更有甚者会为孩子找到一位新爸爸或新妈妈来取代你的位置。如果你有一位这样糟糕的前任，孩子会因此感到很疑惑，矛盾，甚至是愤怒，焦躁，沮丧，而你对这一切却无能为力。

在《与前任共同抚养孩子》中，国际知名的育儿专家艾米•J•L•贝克会教授读者与糟糕前任的相处之道。读者会学会如何避免共同抚养的常见错误，例如“父母疏远症”，以及该如何和孩子沟通，如何保护孩子不受你和前任之间矛盾的影响。

离婚总是痛苦的，尤其是不能好聚好散，前任还一直在孩子面前诋毁你的形象。但是一旦掌握了正确的方法，你就可以保护自己的孩子，使你们之间的关系更加牢固。这本书就会告诉你该如何做。

详情请见：www.amyjlbaker.com.（XAT）

Awards/获奖情况：“在最近几年中，关于父母疏远症的研究已经变得非常引人关注，琳琅满目的书籍，学术论文，杂志周刊都在刊登此类的研究，专业、非专业的意见使读者应接不暇。艾米•J•L•贝克和保罗•R•费恩找到了五条策略可以帮助因前任挑拨而日渐疏远的家长和孩子。”——威廉•贝内特，心理学博士，田纳西州，纳什维尔，德堡大学医学院名誉教授

“这本书会提供给读者必要且专业的意见，使孩子不要卷进父母的争斗中。每一个孩子都应该爱自己的父母，也应该被父母关爱，这本书会帮助离异的夫妻缓和关系。”——杰森•帕特里克，演员，“支持格斯”的成立者，同时也是位父亲。

“In recent years, the study of parental alienation has become an enormously complex topic addressed in hundreds of books, scholarly chapters, and papers in academic journals. A parent who finds herself or himself alienated from a previously loving child may quickly feel overwhelmed by the vast amount of professional and amateur advice that is available. Amy J. L. Baker and Paul R. Fine have found a way to help alienated parents quickly—by focusing on five specific strategies by which a former spouse may cause parental alienation.”—William Bernet, MD, professor emeritus at Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, Nashville, TN

“This book provides the reader with much needed support as well as specific and helpful advice about how to parent a child who is involved in his parent’s conflict. Every child deserves to love and be loved by both parents, and this book will help targeted parents achieve that goal.”—Jason Patric, actor, targeted father, and founder of Stand Up for Gus

About the Author/作者介绍： 艾米•J•L•贝克，博士，关注离异家庭孩子的身心健康，她的作品《受父母疏远症影响的成年孩子》由诺顿出版社出版。除了全国范围内的父母培训以及心理健康课程，贝克还写了十余篇父母和孩子关系的论文，并经常做客早安美国，美国有线电视新闻网，欢乐贝哈尔等节目中。她的文章也经常被刊登在《纽约时代周刊》、《美国新闻》、《世界报道》以及各种纸质媒体中。贝克以优异的成绩毕业于巴纳德学院，后又获得了哥伦比亚大学师范学院人类发展学的博士学位。详情请见：www.amyjlbaker.com.

保罗•R•费恩是新泽西州北部社区心理卫生中心的一位临床社区工作者，心理医生。他已经有25年与离异家庭打交道的工作经历。他会用折衷的，人性化的方式来处理个人和家庭遇到的问题。

Amy J. L. Baker, PhD, is a national expert on children caught in loyalty conflicts and has written a seminal book on the topic, Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome, published by W.W. Norton and Company. In addition to conducting trainings around the country for parents as well as legal and mental health professionals, Baker has written dozens of scholarly articles on topics related to parent-child relationships and has appeared on national TV, including Good Morning America, CNN, and the Joy Behar Show. She has been quoted in the New York Times and US News and World Report, among other print media outlets. Baker graduated from Barnard College, summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa. She has a PhD in human development from Teachers College, Columbia University. More information is available on her website at www.amyjlbaker.com.

Paul R. Fine, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist in practice at a community mental health center in northern New Jersey. He has over twenty-five years’ experience working with diverse populations. His practice includes an eclectic and humanistic approach to problems faced by individuals and families.

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Sales in other countries/其他国家销售情况：Since the initial pub date, 14,410 copies have sold.

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