THE SECRET LIFE OF LOVE AND SEX: MAKING RELATIONSHIPS WORK AND WHAT TO DO IF THEY DON’ T

Book ID/图书代码： 07069514B72068

English Summary/英文概要： Just as a relationship needs love and sex to nurture it, so there are times when lies and secrets are necessary too. Some people seem to be able to get the balance just right without really trying very hard at all, while others never do seem to get it. Yet its an easy trick to learn and heres your chance, because all these things and lots more are covered in vivid detail: Why personality matters and how to work it out; Understanding the amazing differences between men and women; How to get off to a good start; How to get back on track when things go wrong; Dealing with sexual difficulties - easily; Handling a break up by taking charge and ending it elegantly. Sharing your life with another is not an easy task - in fact the surprise is not so much that it often doesnt work but that it can be spectacularly successful! From page one onwards, you will begin to gain a stunning insight into how you can find and keep the love youve always wanted. Written by an expert in relationships and human nature, this book can set you on your way to true happiness.

Chinese Summary/中文概要： 正如两性关系需要爱与性的滋润，因此，有些时候谎言和秘密是必不可少的。有些人似乎不需努力就可以保持好这其间的平衡，而另一些人好像怎么努力也无法做好。其实，这其中有一些十分简单的小技巧，因为本书中将为你生动形象的涵盖所有的这些小小细节：性格为何会有影响，又是如何起作用的；深入理解男性和女性之间的巨大不同；如何展开一个好的开始；当问题出现后，如何返回原先的状态；简单地应对性障碍；通过掌握主动权的方式优雅的结束分手。与他人分享你的生命历程并非一件简单的事情---事实上，并没有那么多的惊喜与意外，但是你却可以让生活从翻开的第一章起便无与伦比的成功，对于如何寻找和维持你一直以来所渴望的爱情，你将产生全新的深刻见解。本书由一名两性关系和人性方面的专家执笔，阅读本书一定可以引领你走上通往快乐的旅途。（DC）

Awards/获奖情况：凯文•霍根，作家，著有《一周168小时》（The 168 Hour Week），《新催眠手册》（The New Hypnotherapy Handbook），《爱与性的秘密生活》（Secret Life of Love and Sex）则打开了通往真正成功的两性关系的秘密之门。从阅读本书的那一刻起，你便会认为，书中所说的那个人正是你无疑，随后你便会获得相应的解决方法。本书必定会成为一部经典作品，特伦斯•沃特斯一定会带领你进入你从未敢涉足的陌生领域。。。。。。

Kevin Hogan, Author of The 168 Hour Week, & The New Hypnotherapy Handbook - The Secret Life of Love and Sex blows open the doors to the real secrets of successful relationships. From the opening pages you think, "that’s me!" and then you are given the solution. Destined to become a classic, Terence Watts takes you where few dare to tread...

About the Author/作者介绍： 特伦斯•沃特斯的早年生活可谓支离破碎，其所导致的后果便是出现了一些列诸如焦虑和自信等的问题。这一系列因素也导致了作者早年的工作经历可谓多姿多彩，其中包括：电视及广播工程师，裁缝，邮递员，摇滚吉他手，地毯工人，家具销售员，电子工程师，灭火器销售员，国标舞舞蹈老师，电脑编程员，电脑游戏编写员----他认为在一个工作中长期待下去对他而言是十分困难的，因为他总是认为自己正在寻找着某种“隐藏”着的东西。

随后，当所有认识他的人都会多次绝望的摇头后，他通过一个研究进程发现，或许自己对于人类的大脑不仅仅只有一些兴趣，他痴迷于此。因此1989年，他获得了专业心理治疗师的执照，很快的，前来向他咨询的人便预约了满满一本，并收到了各种演讲邀请，不仅有英国本土的，也有海外地区的，包括亚洲和美国。

对特伦斯而言，写作有关于人类大脑的书籍作品和致力于研究一样简单；他所著的自助书籍《战士，定居者和游牧者》（Warriors, Settlers & Nomads）迄今为止已经帮助了成千上万的读者，并且其需求量仍在不断上涨，不论是心理理疗师还是“普通”读者们。《7天7道摒除你的焦虑》（7 Ways and 7 Days to Banish Your Anxiety）于2012年出版发行，主要是基于他自创的一套程序，该程序主要用于有效应对各种各样形式的焦虑；其最新力作《爱与性的秘密生活》（The Secret Life of Love and Sex），自从2014年7月出版发行以来便一直饱受欢迎。其演讲时长甚至总计超过35000小时，其所拥有的第一手经验涵盖了人们在生活中遇到的各种问题，相信只要你阅读他的作品，便一定会清晰的知道其所传达的内容。

特伦斯在埃塞克斯拥有一家催眠诊疗所，同时他还是职业催眠与心理理疗联合会的成立者和主席。

Terence Watts’ early years were extremely fragmented in many ways, the upshot of which was problems with anxiety and self-confidence. This resulted in a highly colourful early employment record which included: TV and Radio engineer, tailor, postman, rock ’n’ roll guitarist, carpet layer, furniture salesman, electronic engineer, fire extinguisher salesman, ballroom dance teacher, computer programmer, computer games writer - he found it difficult to stay in one situation for very long and always felt that he was searching for his ’niche’.

Then, when all who knew him had shaken their heads in despair a good few times, he discovered via a study course that he was more than ’a bit of a whiz’ in the fascinating field of the human mind. Qualifying as a professional therapist in 1989, he soon had a full appointment book as well as being in demand for lectures in the UK and abroad, including Asia and the USA.

Writing about the human mind comes as easily to Terence as working with it; his self-help ’Warriors, Settlers & Nomads’ book has helped many thousands of people now, and continues to be in demand by both therapists and ’ordinary’ people alike. ’7 Ways and 7 Days to Banish Your Anxiety’, released in 2012 is based on the programme he devised to deal effectively with all forms of anxiety and his latest. ’The Secret Life of Love and Sex’ proved to be extraordinarily popular from the moment it was published on June 17 2014. With more than 35,000 session hours behind him, and first-hand experience of most of the problems which beset people in life, you can be certain that he knows what he’s talking about.

Terence is the owner of the Essex Institute of Clinical Hypnosis and the Founder/Chair of the Association for Professional Hypnosis and Psychotherapy.

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